Hot, rough sex with her arms bound behind her and my hand on her throat, or a fistful of hair from behind. Inching her toward orgasm, making her hold it until I'm satisfied. Allowing her to release on my command. And then taking her again.

Oh, I have your attention now?

I'm an artist and hobby photographer. I love taking photos of beautiful women adorned in pretty ropes. Yes, that kind of art. But it's probably not what you think it is.

Clean lines, vibrant colors, sweat glistening on her skin. A nervous shudder from within, not of fear but of joy. Being wrapped in exotic fibers, sometimes in an awkward position. Fantasies come to fruition, bondage is beautiful.

I'm warm hearted and respectful. More honest than you might be accustomed, I don't need to bullshit my way into your pants. It's just easier being truthful. About what I like, what I want, who I am.

I don't have hidden agendas. I do pretty rope and hoist girls from tree branches or hard points at occasional parties. I also like sensual play, teasing your senses. Making your skin crawl, giving your mind a sensational buzz. And I like putting good girls over my knee.

Let's talk about your fantasies, the things you get wet dreaming about. The hidden desires you haven't been able to explore. Kinky isn't just furry handcuffs and a cheap blindfold. It's about lighting up your senses, submitting to your own desires, letting go of all the crap that doesn't really matter.

Tell me what you're after, what you long for. We'll get a coffee in a very public place and get to know one another. Safety and discretion (yours over mine) are very important.

I host a monthly munch/barbecue for rope lovers and kinky folk on Oahu, as well as organize kinky education and occasional play events.

My Ideal Person: I believe that discretion, intelligence, honesty, an open mind and a genuine desire to learn and experience true freedom and pleasure will all go a thousand times further than the most perfect body in the world.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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