After 14 years of being the caregiver for my late wife it is time I rejoin the social world and discover new and ( special) friends on an emotional, spiritual and physical level. Yes, I need a playmate. I spent 9 months trying to get out of a pussy and the rest of my life attempting to get back in one. I love the touch, taste and smell of a woman; of sex. My interest vary widely from soft swing, mutual masturbation, voyeurism, foot play, giving massages, role playing, recreational sex and more. Yes, I'm lonely, but not desprate and seek a playmate for swinging as a couple or just conversation, mental and physical stimulation. I still possess a high libido and often possess a blue-steel hard-on a cat can't scratch, but I'm tired of solo sex and looking for another hand or.... I enjoy flirting, sexual teasing such as touching, voyeurism, exhibitionism, women in sexy lingerie, and as a leg man, observing a lady "carelessly" crossing her legs while in a short skirt or dress. I have recently discovered I have a fetish for women's feet. When the wife's former caretaker asked me to massage her tired feet I actually got an erection while doing it! Yes, she noticed; but nothing happened. Of course I enjoy ALL the charms a woman has to offer. I'm D&D FREE and expect the same. I possess numerous other interest including giving Asian full body massages, hunting, camping, cooking and dancing. I enjoy music, oldies rock 'n roll, blues, swing, country and jazz, movies, coin collecting, airplanes, snuggling, lots of foreplay, pets: dogs and a friendly cat-house (Oops!) I mean house cat. Thanks for viewing my profile.

My Ideal Person: "Ideal?? Humm. Do they exist? How about realistic? First, I'm not desperate, but would enjoy discovering that special friend or friends that will tease my mind visually and physically such as lightly touching my nipples making them hard and a woman that wants her feet massaged as I rub one she either lightly moves her foot in my crotch or places the free one there and gently massages my cock while providing a visual sexual flirtation (showing lots of leg wearing a skirt/dress or allowing down-blouse glimpses) at the same time. I have an interest in people that are not inhibited and amenable to getting out of the "rut" and explore a fantasy or perhaps fetishes such as exhibitionism, voyeurism, mutual masturbation, flirting, role playing, erotic photography, lingerie, foot or Aisian full body massage exchange, an "accidental" nipple-slip, (no bra and a down-blouse viewing) a person or couple with an open mind and experimental, respects the word NO and considerate of others. I don't care if you are bi/gay, cross dresser or TV/TS. I am straight and not into pain. Heck, if you are a man, I'll even jack-off with you! Just be alive and amenable to most fun.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage, WOMEN IN LINGERIE, Foot massaging

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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