Softest skin you will ever feel, how's that for an intro? Ok now for the fun stuff..

READ MY WHOLE INTRO SO YOU KNOW WHAT I'M LOOKING FORCan you at least do that? Really I know what I am looking for and what I want.

About me, I'm a professional business woman during the day, sweet,charming,confident and independent. A bit of a workaholic. I am the boss at work, I have no problem dealing with situations, not some push over. I do what has to be done on a daily basis. I have a powerful seductive quality if I see something I want I usually get it eventually. I have many talents including massage so I can appreciate good muscle tone. You would never know by just meeting me how hot and crazy I am on the bed, table, floor, cross.. I love blindfolds, handcuffs,restraints, floggers,feathers, whips ect. I like the pain of it all!

That is what makes this all so fun!

My Ideal Person: What I'm looking for: AGES 30-42 ONLY!! I'm not looking to be a cougar and teach nor am I looking to sleep with my daddy!! No offense to the younger or older but I just find I have more in common in this age range. There has to be conversation,chemistry and trust if it will go any further. Good hygiene, clean cut, can spell words correctly (very or vary, do you know?) I like to wear heels so it's nice if your a bit taller than me. Not into small thin framed or obese, somewhere in the middle is perfect. It's not all about the physical stuff personality counts too. But there needs to be an attraction for both of us.

Not into men that have no job or means of supporting themselves, I like to share in the finer things in life. Disease and drug free. I'm not really into smokers. I work in the beauty and wellness industry so I like smelling good.

I'M NOT INTERESTED IN MARRIED/ATTACHED MEN. NOT INTERESTED IN FWB/NSA, I can go to the bar if I just wanted to get laid. It's not about sex for me, it's the whole mind fuck, lifestyle of it.

LOOKING For a Dom/Top, Master. If you don't know what those are then you are not what I'm after, sorry. Want an experienced, confident, dominant man that is adventourus and will just take control of me for your pleasure and more. Something more that has the potential for a relationship to develop if it's right.

If you message me please note the following:

*Do more than just say hi or some one liner. If you can't come up with more than that why would I be interested in you.

*I'm not going to chat with you on here or give you any further info on me until I feel comfortable.

* I will ask for pics. I won't message back and forth to some invisible man that I have not visual of. I won't meet unless I know what you look like. I would think you would prefer the same if we are going to take the time to meet.

*I'm pretty clear what I'm looking for here, I'm divorced, have kids, have a demanding job. I'm not going to be able to travel so unless you are willing to come up my way if you live farther than 50 miles or so away, it's pointless to even message me.

*I'm selective in whom I meet. I'm selective in whom I actually choose to play with. It's never going to be the first time I meet someone.

*I'm poly and I'm kinky, not going to change anytime soon. If your looking for some one on one normal relationship where we hold hands and look at sunsets and live happily ever after than I'm not your girl. ok, so I"m a bit cynical on that lol. I'm more like " hey I see you got a new toy and I've been naughty sir, lets pop in a porn while you beat me and we can invite ... over too."

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Slave/Master, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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