Note: I'm a male-to-female transgender woman. I've had the operation, and have a vagina. (If I don't state it bluntly like that, it seems to get missed/overlooked...) I don't want to deceive anyone, especially if transwomen are not their 'thing' (^v^)

Also, please send me an e-mail, as I'm not good at responding to 'flirts' (~v^)

Now that I have the potential bad news out of the way...

I'm looking for someone I feel comfortable with -- that there's a bit of simpatico happening, that we can be casual friends even without sexual intimacy. to test this, I like the coffee-and-two-dates routine (but, sometimes, you just know it feels right after the coffee portion.)

I've been called real and down-to-earth but with a goofy sense of humor. I'm still a bit inexperienced on this side of the gender fence, but I'm seeking to get that experience. I'm open-minded and receptive, but not strictly submissive (in fact, I can be nicely assertive.)

I like a wide range of music, including classical, progressive rock, and trance. I'm currently rediscovering my love of The Dixie Dregs.

For two years I was the drummer of a "Holiday Inn" rock band. I still have my set, and try to play it once a week.

I produce videos for a government agency. So I'm choosy about what I watch when I'm not at work. But I still like to see a good movie once in a while.

I like travel, but I don't like being a tourist. I prefer to try to blend in, to avoid the tourist stops, and discover the out-of-the-way places only the natives know.

I'm looking for an excuse to go skiing again, to go hiking in the Sierra Nevadas more often (when the weather's good,) to get out of town and spend a night somewhere else.

DISCLAIMER: I have no problem if you're married, as long as you're in an open relationship with your spouse. I have one condition, though - to meet with and hear from your spouse that it's okay we play.

Additionally, I don't wish to be 'discrete'. Needing our relationship to be 'discrete' is usually an indication you're cheating on your allegedly closed relationship.

I'm not condemning you morally - it's a free country and you can have 'a piece on the side', but it's a buzzkill to me to be just a 'piece'. Bottom line: Part of an honest, open relationship - okay; being the object you cheat with - I'll pass...

My Ideal Person: Someone who finds me sexually arousing, who is not timid about what they want, but respects my limits and desires, too. Someone for whom my trans history does not matter -- it's really not an issue. And as I said earlier, I'm looking for there to be some simpatico between us. Being simpatico with my partner helps me relax and enjoy myself (~v^)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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