Im a 42 year old married woman, I don't want to cheat on my husband with another man, so guys sorry I won't reply. However I don't even know if I am a lesbian, my feelings are confused, maybe I am bisexual or maybe i am a frustrated bored middle aged lady with sexual fantasies of women simply because I have never enjoyed the pleasure of a womans touch. Really I am not seeking or looking for physical meetings I want to be able to chat to likeminded women to explore my sexuality and share intimate feelings.

My Ideal Person: someone articulate, educated patient and caring

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Its a beautiful day and Im meeting a beautiful red haired woman, we are going to spend the day shopping. in the evening we go to a nice romantic meal in a beautiful restaurant. When we are home we drink a few glasses of chilled chablis. The living room is lit with candles and and we talk, talk about men talk about life we laugh and joke. Eventually the talk turns to women and my red haired friend reveals that she harbours fantasies of sex with another woman, I am nervous shocked and excited. She strokes my cheek and I feel the thrill of a womans touch, I stroke her cheek, our lips meet and we explore each others mouths with our tongues, my hands undo her blouse, she is wearing a beautiful ivory coloured lace bra, I cup her breasts gently before unhooking the clasp at the back, we leave it to slide off. She does the same to me. I am no wearing only my skirt, pants and tights, my friend is wearing boots with a heel and black leather hipsters. Our naked tops meet and our breasts crush against each other, our naked breasts crush against each other and I can feel the hardness of her nipples against me. We explore the top half of each others bodies with our eyes our tongues and hands. She kisses my neck, biting it, (God I hope she leaves no mark but I wont stop her) She undoes my skirt and it falls to the floor, her hand strokes my ass and I lean across to kiss her nipples, gently then slide my face down to kiss her navel, I unhook the catch of her trousers and undo the zipper but before I can remove her trousers I must first remove her boots. Removing first one boot and then the other I kiss her feet, she is now standing before me as I kneel, as I kiss her feet my hand reaches up to remove her trousers, her panties don't match her bra, she is wearing a pair of blue "weekday" knickers. I remove her panties but when I approach her between her legs she smiles and says "not yet" she removes my tights and pants and our bodies entwine I can feel her pubic hair and pubic bone against mine. We lie down and our legs wrap around each others, she strokes my clitorus with the back of her hand and I am so hot but she whispers in my ear "you are not ready yet" Not ready I am on fire I can hardly bear it. She kisses my lips says "one minute" and goes upstairs, when she returns it is with a bottle of massage oil some essential oils, and a vibrator. Whle the massage oil warms she sucks my tongue, she teases my nipples and while we kiss deeply and passionately she strokes my face with one hand while gripping my hair with the other. Lying me on my stomach on a fur rug she rubs the scented massage oil into my back, my shoulders, my but the inside of my thighs and again she brushes my pussy lightly. I am so turned on I am almost in pain, but she won't hurry, rolling me onto my back she proceeds to massage every inch of my front, my breasts and tummy are massaged by her breasts. She then lies on her back and tells me to massage her, I feel the hardness of her nipples under the palms of my hand, as I massage her breasts I sit astride her knee and grind my pussy against her knee. I am in bliss, I surrender myself totally to her. We make love on the floor. I come riding her knee, I cum when she tongues me, I cum when she uses her fingers and I come when she uses her vibrator on me. In return I give her orgasms with my tongue, my fingers.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Jenny Agutter, Catherine Deneuve,

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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