Here's the basic information:
I am a very attractive, hwp, d/d free, vas-safe.
I look younger than my age. (lucky genes)

I am seeking a good looking and fun people for whatever happens.

Still working on the dislikes - but I am very open-minded with discussion, open-minded with play - but always discrete and polite.

Here's the more personal information:
I tend to favor extremes - Black and White, Summer and Winter, Spicy Hot and Ice Cold.

I guess that's because life is always between the extremes.

I am passionate in what I choose to do, but very accepting of other people's choices and preferences.

I like people who are honest - but not brutal, compassionate but not patronizing, strong but not overbearing and playful but not obnoxious.

As for the "other stuff", I work, work out, take care of family stuff and "geek" when I have time. I do also like to "play" - but I figured that was a given ...

I work out regularly because of some of my responsibilities require it and also because I enjoy eating so much - lol

Other stuff:
Feel free to drop me a note with questions and thoughts- there is never any obligation (well - that may be later - lol)

Update:
Apparently, I have a special "talent". You will have to ask about it...

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My Ideal Person: Here's the basic answer:
Discrete, no-drama, playful, erotic personality. Prefer hwp or close, d/d free. However, there needs to be a mutual attraction before play.=

Here's the more personal answer:
As mentioned, honest, compassionate and playful. (Flexibility and horniness help too - lol.) Since this is not "mainstream" stuff, discretion is very important. So, if we can't bump into each other at the grocery store without embarrassing someone - then it probably isn't going to work out.

I am looking for people who have some idea of what they want and are willing to take some time to make sure there is a mutual chemistry. The ability to have a conversation, laugh and enjoy discussions about the happenings of life in the pauses between hot,erotic encounters is also a must. And please, no unnecessary drama - this is supposed to be sexual and fun.

While I don't expect to meet any "olympic atheletes" on here (maybe?), I prefer people who take care of themselves and their appearance. "Flexibility" helps since I usually don't stay in one position for very long...

Also, I understand the difference between 1-on-1, couple and group engagements. There is a distinctly different rhythm and I have a sense of what works and what doesn't.

Finally, email works well to get through introductions and initial exchanges - but they can also drag on too long without any noticeable end. I prefer to engage with people who understand the difference so we can respect each other's time and availability.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Sorry - this a "face to face" discussion :-)

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Everywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really celebrities - but there have been some "adult
entertainment" stars that would be interesting.
It isn't so much the "star" thing - but some
of their skills are pretty amazing.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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