well traveled artistic writer and nature lover. experienced and mature. not sure what I'm looking for - just keeping my eyes and mind open for opportunities! I am involved in a long distance long term relationship- and recently discovered it is an "open' one! ;^) Honesty and discretion are paramount- not out to make conquests nor BE one! LOL

My Ideal Person: This is a curious situation for me- as I was not 'looking' prior to be told that my LDL has already been 'actively' looking yet feels that he still wants to "be with me for the rest of his life'. [?] Maybe its a phase,...maybe I just need to readjust my own perceptions...no drama - just genuine interest and compassion for others and enjoy discovering things,..especially from others! LDL and I have often discussed [and fantasized] about soft swinging [sex in same room as another couple] or full swinging [swapping with another couple] I am very Bi-freindly. But so far I have remained cautious. Am not about to create or invite anything that might shake up or become problematic to my LDL! Since he remains off shore and will be for some time, [war zone work] He is already 'recovering' from a very painful [for both of us!] batch of cyber relationships! So I am only exploring and testing the waters for myself right now. I'm not so easily obsessed with cyber fantasy and cyber sex - since there isnt much I havent already tried in RL! LOL - I'm personally much more impressed with someone's ability to use their MIND [my favorite sex organ BTW!] and brave enough to open their HEART,...and just be themselves. Life's too short and things are just things. I've gone WAYY past all that! LOL