First off: ignore my age; calendars lie a lot. I'm a youthful, tall, vigorous man who wants to expand his horizons, including the sexual. I'm intelligent, pretty well educated (PhD, for whatever that means), inventive, and deeply involved in the arts. And I have no intention of dismissing any of that. I want to be able to talk with a woman in and out of the bedroom and to let my life evolve in all ways.

I'm not looking for love; I have that in a terrific totally open relationship. Love would be nice; I believe absolutley that one can love many others at the same time. But love is not my goal. I'm not looking for a LTR, but I'm also not out for one night stands. (Incidentally, why "stands"? Can't one lie down??) But whatever comes comes. And I don't require far out kinkiness; swinging by one foot on a trapeze while trying to get my cock in doesn't attract me, though there are lots of other, saner things that I'd like to try. Nor am I attracted to merely huge breasts. Simple quantity doesn't do it for me. What I want is a broad relationship that is fully sexual with a woman who can see both the absurdity of the world and the beauty of special sensual, sexual moments.

So...I like to do lots of things, all sorts of things, but at the end of the day I also like to have a quiet dinner with some nice wine....and the company of a special woman. And then I like to get active again. That time isn't so quiet!

And I'm also a romantic; I love a quiet time with an affectionate woman, whether walking in the woods or sitting in front of a fire in the fireplace--and then a heated time of love-making, from prolonged foreplay through orgasms for my partner to a nice long cooling down. In short, I'm a complex, I think interesting, sensual, sexual man who wants more, a man who wants to experience life at its fullest.

My Ideal Person: I want to meet a smart, sexy woman who wants to grab a hunk of life and enjoy it--a woman who will be her own person and still be loving and affectionate, caring and generous--and sexual as hell. I want a woman who is not possessive but wants a loving, mutually respectful relationship in whatever form we can work out. I want our time together to be satisfying in a whole bunch of ways--I want a woman who is willing to take a chance at having, among other things, a wonderful sexual relationship. Very sexual.

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