KNOWSHOWTOLOVEU June 19, 2911 UPDATING MY BASIC PROFILE—I am choosing to leave all the “old information” on this profile because it contains a lot of good stuff. Now I will bring things current. The two Mexican men that are mentioned have been out of my life and back in Mexico for quite a long time now. I have been living with another Mexican man since May 2, 2011. Our relationship is very perfect in all aspects except the sexual, and after two years of trying to change his sexuality into playful, open and frequent, I am throwing in the towel on that one. I have told him he can have his masturbation addiction, and I will find another man to be to me sexually what he does not desire to be and is not capable of being with me.

So I am being honest with him and not cheating or betraying him. I have now graduated from Napa Valley College with my Certificate in Paralegal Studies (2010) and with my Associate Degree in Science in Administration of Justice. I am still vitally interested in immigration reform and in working with Hispanic speaking people. I would do this on a volunteer basis, not getting a job. I am now 75 years young with a plump Goddess body, an insatiable curiosity about life and an excitement of being on a new threshold of life with my new skills. I live in Napa, California. You would need to have your own place where we could be together, and available at least a couple times a week, please! Do NOT be married or living with someone on whom you would be cheating.

OLD BASIC PROFILE: I am on this sexual dating website for the express purpose of connecting with and getting to know men and women who are not only interested in the finer things of the sexual experience, but also the spiritual side of sex...the going to God/Goddess/Bliss/Ecstasy part of sex.

I am openly bisexual and proud of it! In the past I taught classes and workshops on bisexuality (in Colorado) and also had an ongoing social group of bisexual people where we did movies, dinners, plays, etc as a group. Really a satisfactory experience for me and for the other people. Now I live in California, for the last ten years.

I am also polyamorous...capable of and preferring to be in relationship with more than one person at the same time (even in the same bed at the same time!). All is open and honest in these relationships with me; everyone knows about the other person and what is going on. Honesty is my best policy!

I DO NOT GET INVOLVED WITH MARRIED/ATTACHED MEN OR WOMEN UNLESS THE OTHER PARTNER/SPOUSE IS ALSO INVOLVED. OTHERWISE IT DOESN'T FIT MY HONESTY POLICY!

Currently I am deeply in love with two men from Mexico who are almost exclusively Spanish speaking. I LOVE that language and am studying it in college. They are learning English as I teach them and I am learning more Spanish from them. It is a great combination. One is 30 and one is 38 years old. The 30 year old and I have been sexual partners for nine months. I also have lovers who are in their 20’s, 40’s, 50's and 60's.
At present it is been almost two years since I have had a woman lover, and I am very "hungry" for that kind of relationship in my life.

UPDATE! UPDATE! Hallelujah...finally I have two awesome new women lovers, both of them from LesbianPersonals connections. I am sooooo delighted and excited...room for more...no restrictions on age, race or religion for my women lovers, either! YET ANOTHER UPDATE: I have recently begun an ongoing relationship with a couple, man and woman, which is unbelievable electric and awesome! The man is a former boyfriend and the woman is his new girlfriend and now mine also!!!! Yea

NO RESTRICTIONS ON AGE, RACE OR RELIGION FOR MEN OR WOMEN!

At age 72, I find myself with far more desire for sexual experiences than ever before in my life. AND I HAVE ALWAYS HAD VERY GREAT SEXUAL DESIRE! I am very, very grateful for this level of sexual wellness.

I also have great desire for LIFE, LEARNING AND LOVE! I was in college full time last semester studying Spanish, viticulture (vineyards and grapevines and wine making), videography (making short documentary movies) and guitar. This semester I am studying for my paralegal certification and I continue my plan to become fluent in speaking Spanish. I plan to work in the immigration field helping people who come from Spanish speaking countries. I am passionately concerned and want to make a big difference somehow in the immigration issues for Spanish speaking peoples, especially those from Mexico.

You will find me passionate in all things that I do (except maybe doing dishes), VERY multi-orgasmic and juicy to the MAX naturally. I am extremely healthy and need or take no medications and not even needing much nutritional supplements. I have practiced what I have termed "YOUTHING" instead of "AGING" for many, many years.

I have been married and divorced twice. From my first marriage of 20 years I had five grown children and 17 grandchildren and one great-grandson. My oldest son died in May 2008 from alcoholism; dealing with that grief has been very difficult this year, but I am now doing o.k. Lovely family, but very scattered far from me except for one daughter and 3 grandchildren.

I have had several long term live together relationships with men and women more than 20 years younger than me...sometimes way more younger than that as I have gotten older.

Partnering with me you would find that in addition to my spiritual, transcendent sexual side, I also have a very playful and slightly kinky side. You can't put me into any kind of "box" or "label" because I am so versatile in the roles that I play during lovemaking and in other aspects of my life. I LOVE DIVERSITY IN ALL THINGS!

My Spiritual Path is primarily Native American, Pagan and Wiccan with the first half of my life spent as a Protestant (Christian). I still believe in Jesus & God, but not in the traditional manner and I definitely am no longer a Christian. I also believe in the Goddess(es)! Ritual and ceremony and prayer are an integral part of my life.

Being outdoors is one of the greatest pleasures of being on this Earth for me. Making love outdoors is especial SPECIAL. I GLORY in the beauty and diversity of the treasures of the Earth, and I care and cry deeply for the states in our world that are so prevalent like war, hate, prejudice, pollution, judgment and etc.

Passionately celebrating the physicalness of how the male and female are absolutely made for each other, as well as how male/male and female/female bodies can also complement and compliment each other, I believe making love regularly (2 or 3 times a day is my ideal, though rarely achieved that often because of lack of partners and/or lack of time totally revitalizes and tones my Body, Mind and Spirit for a life that can exemplify the Glory of God and Humans. The Divine in Me L♥VES the Divine in You!

Let me know if you have any unanswered questions. Please let me hear from you and let’s learn if we are meant to express ourselves together sexually as lovers, or just maybe become friends or only ships passing in the night! Until then…

Love, Blessings and Kisses in all the “right places”

Linda

My Ideal Person: NOTE, PLEASE BE SURE TO READ THE CURRENT SHORT UPDATE of June 19, 2011 UNDER THE BASIC PROFILE HEADING—OTHER PERSON: I am choosing to not fill in this part with a list of things, because my experience has shown me that if I just allow God/Goddess to provide me with the perfect partners for the moment or for that special long term relationship, or as I call them...RAINBOW RELATIONSHIPS...all works out wonderfully. I have also learned that to work with this kind of trust means that I PAY ATTENTION TO ALL THE DETAILS HAPPENING AROUND ME IN ORDER TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF OPPORTUNITIES FOR RELATIONSHIPS. For example, here is the story of how my most recent and one of the most awesome relationships came into my life.

I had taken a load of trash to the small city dump near where I lived in my big red pickup one afternoon late last October 2008. Two vehicles over from me was a pickup truck with a big open trailer full of trash. In the trailer was standing a tall, blond, young god of a man with no shirt and a gorgeous tan body. With him in the trailer was a short Latino looking man with jet black hair and mustache. They were striking in their different looks. I backed my pickup in and began pulling trash out of it. Suddenly I felt "eyes" on me and I looked up right into the eyes of the Latino man in the trailer who was looking directly at me. He flashed me this gorgeous smile and waved at me. I smiled and waved back. A few minutes later, as I finished and drove my truck away, I felt that I had to go speak to them. I parked, turned off my truck and walked back to their trailer and spoke with them briefly about some wooden pallets that I wanted to give away. They didn't need them, so I turned to walk back to my pickup...just loving the gorgeousness of the two of them and their contrasting looks. The Latino man said, "Bye Bye" and I turned around to look at him...there was THAT SMILE again. I said "Bye Bye" and left, but I could not get their presence out of my mind. So an hour later I drove the several miles back to the dump to see if they were still there. I actually met them at the entrance but did not realize it was them until too late to stop and I couldn't turn around or back up because the road was too narrow and curvy. Almost in tears at the near miss, I drove the mile or so on up to the cashier's shack at the dump. I got out of my truck, introduced myself to the cashier woman, told her I had just fallen in lust with the Mexican man at the dump who had just left with the blond man. I asked if she knew them and she didn't know their names, but said they came every couple of weeks, and were working on the construction of a mansion nearby. She agreed to take two of my business cards and to give them to these guys when they came again.

Though I checked back with her several times, they had not been there on a day that she was working. I despaired of my stupidity of not just giving them my cards that very first time I talked to them. Anyhow, eventually they came while Julia was there and she gave them the cards, emphasizing that I was most interested in the Latino man.

A week later he called and we had a troubled conversation with our different languages. He called several times and eventually had a friend who spoke English talk to me, tell me that Juan Jose` lived in Santa Rosa and ask me to meet Juan Jose` the next Sunday in the parking lot of a local Calistoga Mexican market.

I do want to explain here that I did use my thinking cap and my common sense, and after the initial few phone conversations with JJ, I arranged with a friend who was bilingual to do a conference call with us and to ask JJ many questions about his life and background. We three spent 30 minutes doing this and Juan Jose` answered every question at length in Spanish that Sergio and I asked him. I was impressed and grateful that he did not get angry for my questions and for bringing in my friend to help me. I went to the market and he went to the market on December 13th, but somehow we missed each other. We both called and agreed to try it again the following Sunday, but then I changed my mind mid-week and called and asked if I could come to his home to meet him and go for a ride in my pickup. He readily agreed and gave me his address. I showed up and the lust and flames of desire ignited BIG TIME, and we made love for over an hour. Our lust turned into love in that experience.

Awesome experience after waiting so long, for this was now December 23rd! Turned out Juan Jose`s construction work was just five minutes from my house in Calistoga, so he was close all this time. If only I had been brave enough to give him my business card right when I thought of it that first day, we might have had more time together. I will never hesitate to give out my card to a stranger again!

But in the meantime I had the honor of my other Mexican boyfriend, Rogelio, to ask me to marry him in October. He changed his mind because of our age difference of 41 years, but we continue to be lovers even now. Rogelio and I would have totally missed the almost unbelievable and wonderful experiences that we have shared together if we had put each other into the “boxes” of age differences, language differences, education differences, and cultural differences. I would have missed that “almost getting married to Rogelio” experience probably if I had given Juan Jose` my card that first day, so all is perfection.

Juan Jose` moved in with me on December 31st, New Years Eve…just nine days after we finally got together…and was with me until Valentine’s Day when he had to move to another town to follow the construction work. He only makes it home for a night every two weeks or so now because they work them 7 days a week on and on. He had to do that while he was living with me also.

Anyhow, being with Juan Jose` for almost two months was the sweetest, easiest, smoothest the quickest success (Rapido, in Spanish) of any relationship I have ever experienced. He calls us “Grande Amigos!” Our words for our relationship were Contento, Tranquillo and Perfecto! I miss him greatly. I hope this story illustrates how I remain open to the incredible possibilities of how relationships can develop in my life!

P.S. JUAN JOSE CAME TO LIVE WITH ME AGAIN ON JUNE 19, 2008 AND WE WERE TOGETHER UNTIL THE END OF OCTOBER WHEN HIS DRINKING PROBLEM BECAME TOO GREAT FOR ME TO HAVE IN MY LIFE, SO NOW WE ARE LIVING APART BUT STILL SEE EACH OTHER OCCASIONALLY. WHAT A BLESSING WE HAVE BEEN FOR EACH OTHER THIS YEAR. NOW I AM AGAIN FULLY AVAILABLE! P.P.S. June 2011—Juan Jose and I spent a lot of time together, but not living together from December 2008 to April 2009. At that time he moved far away and eventually moved back to Mexico. I still miss him

So…..no descriptions or lists of requirements or limitations for you to fit into or to think that you cannot fit into…except that you must be totally available and willing to be completely honest with me about your life as I am about mine.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Moody Blues

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Being with two or more men who are sexually interactive
with each other as well as with me.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
no, I prefer to fantasize about REAL people that I have an
actual chance to be with

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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