NOTE: PLEASE READ ENTIRE PROFILE BEFORE CONTACTING ME! I know it's kind of long, but you will save both of us a lot of time. I am NOT (repeat, NOT!) interested in CYBERSEX, PHONESEX OR PIC TRADING with strangers!! Please don't ask. Additionally, I will NOT (repeat, NOT!) respond if you don't have a pic available when you contact me! And, I am NOT (repeat, NOT!) interested in MARRIED/ATTACHED gentlemen. Again, please don't bother contacting me.

One last thing, WARNING to ANY institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects: You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.

OK... here goes...

I am an attractive, divorced, average-sized woman in the Metro Atlanta area. I am intelligent and articulate, have a great sense of humor, and am emotionally stable and secure(no drama). My taste are very eclectic, translating into a deep desire to experience and enjoy different cultures, nationalities and peoples. I am very sensual and extremely passionate.

I enjoy movies (action, suspense thrillers, comedies, drama, love stories), music (old school R&B, blues, jazz), quiet dinners out (or in), dancing (especially slow dancing), comedy shows, and spending time with friends & family. My favorite TV shows are Criminal Minds, CSI Miami and just about any forensics-themed show. I enjoy playing cards (bid whist and spades) for entertainment purposes only... primarily because I'm not very good at it! And I want to take golf lessons as soon as my schedule permits. I'm told that I'll like it a lot given my personality and somewhat (mildly) anal retentive attitude.

I am not one to engage in casual sex (one night stands) so if that's your preference, please don't bother to respond. The hot, steamy, lascivious, libidinous, mind-blowing sexual encounters I want to engage in can only occur once two people know something about and care for each other.

I have a facial pic available if you have one as well.

My Ideal Person: OK... they did say IDEAL person, so bear with me here...

I prefer a big, tall man (at least 6' tall or more, 200-275lbs, with a large and/or athletic build), but who is an extremely gentle and sensitive lover. (Height and weight are negotiable, gentleness and sensitivity are not.) Race is unimportant. However, he MUST be secure enough in himself to be with a woman who is extremely self-sufficient and independent, but who also loves to be taken care of, protected and pampered.

His skills as a lover MUST be exceptional, not the least of which includes the ability to listen and respond to what I say works and doesn't work for me, as opposed to assuming he already knows all there is to know about satisfying me. (Hint: we're all different and what may be extremely pleasurable to one woman could be a big turn off to another.) He MUST be well-versed in what foreplay is (that it begins well before entering the bedroom) and what it is not (a kiss or two and a stroke of the breast just before penetration!). Additionally, he MUST not have any qualms whatsoever about giving oral sex. He has to get just as excited bringing me to orgasm orally (no matter how long it takes!) as I do him.

He MUST also be comfortable and secure enough in his own sexuality (manhood) to participate in my fantasies (that's "fantasies" guys, not necessarily reality!) of men with men, as well as women with women. (See my "Fantasies Topic" for more details.) And he MUST understand that for me, exploring and venturing into "alternative" sexual activities can only come after we have established a certain level of trust. Therefore, pressuring me to engage in such, unless and until I'm ready, is non-negotiable.

He MUST also be very intelligent. That doesn't mean that he has to be a college graduate, necessarily. (I'm sure we all know lots of dumb college graduates!) But it does mean that he knows how to string together a couple of words to make a complete sentence. He has read something other than the comics and sports sections of the newspaper in the past year. And, he has interests other than just sports. After all, we have to have something to talk about in between love-making sessions, right?

He MUST be very clean, disease and drug free, and practice safe sex. And, he MUST also be UNATTACHED, i.e., single, divorced, widowed, not living with someone, etc. I'm not interested in playing the "duck and dodge the wife/girlfriend" game. Also, I prefer that he lives relatively close by, or, at least, is willing to travel to meet on a regular basis. I am OK with his choosing to date others, as I would like to do the same unless/until we decide to be mutually exclusive.

You should have a pic available to send if you contact me. I really don't want to waste my time, or yours, if you aren't serious about getting together. (Let's face it, the vast majority of folks on here are not serious about meeting.) And, if you don't have a pic to send, I know you're not serious. Of course, having a pic clearly doesn't mean that you are serious about meeting either, but, I know for sure you're not, if you haven't taken the time to upload a pic or two (whether they're visible publicly or not).

I have tried to be as clear here as time and space permit. I think doing so prevents a lot of wasted time, energy and effort. If you think you can handle such a tall order, I'd love to hear from you

Talk to you soon...

P.S. I find mustaches, beards/goatees extremely sexy!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Anything involving 3somes or 4somes of the opposite sex where the girls get it on with each other, as well as the guys. And the guys get it on with each other as well as the girls.

We are all familiar with the girl/girl stuff (which I love), but I want to include the guy/guy stuff too. I want to see a guy sucking a big cock at the same time he's fucking a girl. Or have a guy laying on his back and a girl sitting on his face. He's eating her pussy, she's sucking his cock, and another guy is fucking him in the ass.

I also get off on fantasies where Guy A and a girl suck off Guy B together, at the same time Guy B is also sucking off Guy A. Or both guys eat and finger the girl's pussy together, sucking each other's tongues, fingers, etc. Or a guy (A) is sitting in a chair, fucking a girl. Her face is away from him. Guy B is on his knees between Guy A's legs licking the girl's pussy and Guy A's balls; and alternating licking and fingering Guy A's asshole and pulling Guy A's big dick out of the girl's pussy, licking and sucking off all the juices.

Any and all of these are made even more exciting by having the roles involve teachers/students, masters/maids, servants etc. or any situation where authoritary/powerlessness is portrayed. Others include the coach making the football captain suck his cock as penance for losing the big game, while he (the coach) eats the captain's girlfriend's pussy. Of course, once coach and the young cheerleader are sufficiently aroused, he has to fuck the young cheerleader (missionary style) while the captain sits on her face and she and the coach suck the captain's big dick and lick his balls together, all the while he (coach) is pounding the young cheerleader.

I guess you get the picture??

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Never really had that fantasy, too much fun with real, regular
folks.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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