GOING STRRONG--June 19, 2911 UPDATING MY BASIC PROFILE—I am choosing to leave all the “old information” on this profile because it contains a lot of good stuff. Now I will bring things current. The two Mexican men that are mentioned have been out of my life and back in Mexico for quite a long time now. I have been living with another Mexican man since May 2, 2011. Our relationship is very perfect in all aspects except the sexual, and after two years of trying to change his sexuality into playful, open and frequent, I am throwing in the towel on that one. I have told him he can have his masturbation addiction, and I will find another man to be to me sexually what he does not desire to be and is not capable of being with me.

So I am being honest with him and not cheating or betraying him. I have now graduated from Napa Valley College with my Certificate in Paralegal Studies (2010) and with my Associate Degree in Science in Administration of Justice. I am still vitally interested in immigration reform and in working with Hispanic speaking people. I would do this on a volunteer basis, not getting a job. I am now 75 years young with a plump Goddess body, an insatiable curiosity about life and an excitement of being on a new threshold of life with my new skills. I live in Napa, California. You would need to have your own place where we could be together, and available at least a couple times a week, please! Do NOT be married or living with someone on whom you would be cheating.

UPDATE NOV 25, 2007: I HAVE NOW GIVEN UP PERMANENTLY 45 POUNDS OF MY FORMER REALLY FULL BODIED SELF. ONE OF THESE DAYS I GUESS I SHOULD HAVE SOME NEW PHOTOS TAKEN...AFTER I LET GO OF SOME MORE POUNDS! SMILE!

NOTE: NO SEX PROMISED ON THE FIRST MEETING!!! BUT YOU CAN ALWAYS TRY TO SWEETLY PERSUADE ME!!! I HAVE BEEN KNOWN TO GIVE IN! CHUCKLE! PLEASE SEND ME PHOTOS OF YOURSELF IN YOUR FIRST E-MAIL. THANKS!

Written and added to my profile on October 11, 2007

Please don't let my age fool you...I considered putting down that I was in my 50's which is what most people think I am. But I have worked hard to keep my good health and good looks, and I have played hard to keep my positive, young-at-heart attitude towards life going strong, so I really like who and what I am at my age.

I have put so much info into my first profile below that I don't know what else you might want to know about me. But since I am kind of an "open book" woman, if you have questions...please ask them. This profile is a combination of an older version and this newer part.

My current main "boy friends" Mexican men in their 30's and we get along great...especially on the sexual side of things. Really amazing and wonderful relationship. They work very long hours so only make it over once or twice a week, leaving me time for others in open relationship. No discreteness necessary here on my part!

My sexual drive since I was 50 surpasses anything I had previously experienced in my life and I just seem to keep getting better with good practice! And I always did have a high sex drive and desire…I do not know why this is but I am very grateful for my juicy, highly orgasmic Self! One of my lovers says that I have multiple screaming, streaming orgasms.

Perhaps one reason is that I regard sexuality and spirituality as being inseparable in my expression of loving. Therefore I also find that for me sex/making love is a visit into bliss and ecstasy, and it is a high, holy experience. This doesn’t mean that I don’t have my kinkiness too. I would like a little more of the sweet, romantic approach to sex, and would also most certainly enjoy the lusty fucks, too!

I have been a practicing nudist for most of my adult life so I am extremely comfortable with my body and with the bodies of other people. They and I are simply works of art!

Logistically I have been married twice, for 20 years and for 4 years, and have been divorced twice, and I have lived with two other men that were more than 20 years younger than me in open relationships in LTR’s. My two marriages were strictly monogamous. My other relationships have been OPEN. I have five children (three boys then two girls, all grown), 17 grandchildren and step-grandchildren and l great-grandchild, so FAMILY is very important to me. My oldest son died in May 2008 from alcoholism and left us full of grief and sadness. Things are better here in November. All but one of my children live in other states and one in Japan so I don't get to see them very often.

I began acknowledging my tendency and desire to be bisexual in 1984 and had my first lovely experience with a woman on July 4, 1986. Talk about fireworks! My then young boyfriend that I was living with initiated me into the joys and techniques of making love to a woman, and I took it from there enthusiastically!

Please see the “older” version of my profile below that is very detailed…just read what you want of it…or not. I look forward to hearing from you if you think you would be interested in knowing me better!

SEVEN PHOTOS AVAILABLE FOR VIEWING. THEY WERE ALL TAKEN ON DECEMBER 10, 2005, EXCEPT THE ONE WITH THE TATTOO ON MY RIGHT FACIAL CHEEK. THAT ONE WAS TAKEN IN 2006.

NEW INFORMATION: I realized just now that there is something very important that I had forgotten to be specific about...the matter of safe sex. I really miss the good old days when a person didn't have to worry so much about all those darned "bugs" out there, but truth is...they are there: SOOOOOOO...IF I HAVE BEEN HAVING SEX I PERIODICALLY HAVE MYSELF TESTED WITH ALL AVAILABLE TESTS BY MY M.D. PHYSICIAN. THIS IS FOR MYSELF AS WELL AS OTHERS! SO FAR I HAVE NOT CAUGHT ANYTHING WHICH IS AN AMAZING RECORD CONSIDERING MY "BUSY" SEXUAL TIMES DURING MY LIFE. LAST SET OF TESTS WERE DONE IN JULY 2008 AND I AM ALL CLEAR! NOW I WOULD WANT TO PRACTICE SAFE SEX, ESPECIALLY CONDOMS AND EVEN THEN I EXPECT A NEW PARTNER OR POTENTIAL PARTNER TO HAVE HAD ALL THE NECESSARY TESTING DONE, OR BE WILLING TO DO THEM AND TO SHOW ME ALL THE PAPERWORK. I HAVE MY PAPERWORK AVAILABLE. I AM VERY SMART ABOUT SEXUAL MATTERS, AND I REALIZE THAT TESTS STILL HAVE AN UNRELIABLITY TIME FACTOR. SOME TESTS ARE BETTER THAN NO TESTS. I DESIRE GOOD HEALTH FOR MYSELF AND FOR MY LOVERS ALSO.

I am a veteran of several long and successful monogamous relationships and I think those are wonderful. However, having been openly bisexual since 1986, I probably do not ever want to cut out the possibility of either a woman or a man. I am also a veteran of several years of successful and most delightful poly-relationships with 3 to 8 people at various times. I have an awesome spiritual path, which is a combination of good things from many religions, but mostly Native American and Wiccan with a total belief in God and Jesus.

More information about me!

Those pictures of me are up online. So “what you see is what you get” kind of thing! Though I have lost some weight, I, myself, am carrying too many pounds for me to be totally comfortable with. They are nicely distributed, and I certainly am not huge, but definitely not slender. I tell you these things just so there are no surprises, or rather…just good surprises!

If my body size doesn't turn you off, maybe we could turn each other on!

For me, Spirituality and Sexuality belong together and I am particularly interested in being with people who have had Tantric and trancendental sexual experiences and want to cultivate conditions whereby this could happen frequently with a partner or partners.

I am a very passionate woman about the environment, peace, honor and respect of my fellow human beings...and yes, sex too!

I am not fond of t.v. or watching sports on or off t.v.
I am more of a doer than a watcher in all aspects of my life. I have a huge range of things that I am interested in and that I do like to do. I would like to practice both my hunting and fishing skills, which are extremely rusty. I love fancy places and things, and I also love roughing it outdoors. I once spent 40 days and nights on a Solo Vision Quest (totally alone) in the canyonlands of Utah (1992). What an awesome experience!

Hope to hear from those of you that are interested in me!

goingstrrong

My Ideal Person: NO RESTRICTIONS ON AGE, RACE OR RELIGION! I let the Universe provide my partners.Of course that includes putting myself into situations where contacts can happen. And it also includes being willing to reach out to people with whom I come into contact!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I used to have a partner with whom we frequently made each
other's sexual fantasies come true, so I don't
have too many left undone.





One, though, that is hard to make come true because of the
public place is to have an older car with the gas tank under
the license plate. I am bent over filling the tank, and I
am wearing a blouse with a very full rather long skirt. The
wind keeps blowing it up high, and I do not have any panties
on. One of the service station attendents is watching me.
He walks over, unzips his fly, holds up the back of my skirt
and proceeds to fuck me from behind and fill me almost immediately
with a big load of cum. Then he zips up his pants and walks
away without saying a word. I have not said a word either.
I finish filling my tank while his cum is running down my
legs from my own "full tank". I get into my car
and drive off with a big smile on my face!


I would also like to be naked in the center of a circle of bisexual
men all playing with themselves and each other and then
walking in close to me and all coming all over my body at the
same time, leaving me dripping with cum. Then I want them
to lay me down, lick the cum off me and take turns fucking
me and letting me suck them off. They would be having sex
with each other all around me also.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place, A bed, A rollercoaster, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere, outdoors anywhere and indoors anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage, Making love outdoors

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Just Tim Curry as he was cross dressed in the movie "The
Rocky Horror Picture Show" Just the bizareness of
it back when I first saw the movie years ago turned me on immensely.
I bought a lifesize poster of him and put it on the back of
my bedroom door, so I could fantasize about him while I made
love to myself.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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