IÂ’m a 65 y.o. straight male. I'm employed and financially secure. Sexual interests have centered on D&S for the last 30+ years, but now that my wife has passed away, IÂ’m open to exploring other sexual adventures. Past hobbies have included reading, writing, guns, cars and computers, but over the last couple of years I've become increasingly inactive, though I still read a lot! IÂ’ve never had an online relationship, so I have no idea whether IÂ’d enjoy it. Prefer personal contact, of course, and prefer within 50 miles, but flexible.

For me, sex is a major issue. NO, I'm not a sex-obsessed pervert. I LOVE sex, both physically and intellectually, in all its fabulous diversity, and I enjoy reading about it or talking about it almost as much as doing it. Unfortunately, I live where there are more Saturday Night Live "church-ladies" per square mile than almost anywhere, and their sexual attitudes tend to be very different than mine. That's why I'm looking on LesbianPersonals.

My Ideal Person: I'm looking for a lady that will help me escape my "comfortable" rut, and get back into life. But my ideal lady will also be excited about exploring her sexuality with me. She will regard menopause as a freeing experience, not the end of her sex life. My ideal lady is intelligent, and reads for pleasure. She knows there is music that is neither country and western nor rock, and enjoys its many flavors. She can talk knowledgeably about things that do not involve “American Idol” or Paris Hilton’s latest silliness. If she can seem interested in cars (aside from NASCAR) when I bore her by talking about them, she would be a dream. I'm really looking for a long-term relationship, not just a fuck buddy (though I wouldn't refuse one! lol), so I would be quite satisfied with a slow, "get to know you" approach.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
I really can’t name any. I usually Prefer instrumentals

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
My wife was submissive, so most involve female submission
of some sort, though many are “plain vanilla”.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
D&s, role play, giving and receiving oral, most others.

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No.

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